How to build a long lasting Relationship?

                When we say relationship, it is not just between couples but between any two persons sharing a bond, may it be love, may it be friendship, may be family relation or may professional one.

Now why we need to have a long lasting relation?

                Cause life is long, not lasting forever but still pretty long...

Since we are born we share a bond with our mom, then dad, then siblings and family, gradually the relationship circle grows up to neighbourhood, schooling, clubbing, work place to society....

Not with everyone we meet, we share a bond...we do feel like being friends or being attached to few of them, that means they are special to you

So 1. Treat them a way they feel SPECIAL

From crowd of hundreds, you liked them only that means they are different from rest of the mob

So 2. RESPECT n APPRECIATE their differences.

When you chose them for you, you chose them the way they are, you liked them, you loved them for the same way they are

So 3. DON’T try to MODIFY their personality, let them the way they want to be.

Now when they are with you, make them feel they are not alone, they have someone, they can talk with, when they feel low or when they are at high; someone to care, to share and to dare with

So 4. Have SWEET REMINDERS of your presence.

If they mean something to you, let them know

So 5. PLEASE them with your actions.

If you didn’t like something, say upfront; don’t hurt with your actions or silence

So 6. CLARIFY things before you mess the relation.

When you are together, don’t talk about the rest of world, talk about your world; share laugh, share love

So 7. SPEND some QUALITY TIME together

Many times relations break not because of any of two, but because of the rumours from someone else. Know whom to trust on, don’t let anyone break your bond, you care about.

So the last one DON’T KEEP SPACE for third person to ruin your happiness n your relation

I really appreciate you read this till the end, that says you truly care for your relationship,

So here is a treat for you, the short cut for long lasting relationship

                TREAT THEM THE WAY YOU WILL LIKE TO BE TREATED...