Sunday, 9 August 2015

UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP

Yeah, its kinda trend of today… ‘I love you, but I can’t marry you’ ‘neither can stay away from you so let’s be in RELATIONSHIP till either of us gets married…’

Seriously there exists this type of relationships. I don’t know about rest of world but this fact sucks me. I mean it’s disgusting…dam weird…completely ridiculous…( all this kind of adjectives can be applicable)

Well if you think it’s a one way adjustment; let me tell you it’s not…rather it is a mutual agreement of both to stay in this stupid UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP which will end by their marriage to someone else…  and the divine reason for this is cause they LOVE each other. I don’t know which kind of love is this that makes you fall for a definite time line, a  kind of love that you both nurture to get apart, a kind of love which is mutually meant to end.

My simple question is,
·         If you are gonna marry someone of parents’ choice, then who told you to choose someone for you?   
·         If you know you are gonna b apart, why the hell you want to be TOGETHER?
·         If you are so sure of end, just why do you want to start??
·         If you cannot stay away from each other right now, just howwww you are gonna manage this after a time when the TIME-LINE is over??????
I really want know
·         What do you think about love? Is it a joint venture for you?
·         What do you think of mind? Is it a Re-boot system?
·         What just what you think of life? Is it a walkabout??

Why don’t they understand it’s not just two who are gonna suffer at the end, there will be two more persons they will be disappointing. With their nonsense decision of being in UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP they are putting four lives on stake.

It’s my humble request to each one, not to play with emotions neither of others nor of themselves. It will be over within fraction of seconds but to recover from it, might cost years…

Commitments, Relationships and Love are Divine things, just because of some stupid stories; I can’t see people being afraid of these pious emotions of life.




Saturday, 8 August 2015

चालायचंच

कोण आहे हो Perfect  इथे?
प्रत्येकजण चुकतोच की..
मग तासभर तेच चघळण्यापेक्षा
‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

जातो तोल, खुलते पोल..
कोण आहे इथे धुतल्या तांदळाचं,
मग उगाच Gossip करण्यापेक्षा,
‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

जुळतात नाती, तुटतातही..
काचेची भांडी फुटतातही..
मग ते बोचणारे तुकडेच कुठवर वेचणार
‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

Friday, 7 August 2015

काही क्षण...

वाटेत कधी तरी उगीचच थांबा..
बाकड्यावर एखाद्या विश्राम घ्या..
अगदी निवांत फक्त बसून रहा..
थोडावेळ घड्याळ, मोबाईल बाजूला सारा
संथ वाहणाऱ्या वाऱ्यासोबत मनालाही वाहू द्या
अलगद, हळुवार डोळ्यांना मिटून घ्या..
कुणाच्या तरी चेहऱ्याला मनपटलावर येऊ द्या..
त्यांच्या मनसोक्त हास्यात क्षणभर रमून जा....
तुमच्याही नकळत त्याचं प्रतिबिंब तुमच्या ओठांवर असेल,
दिवस कसाही गेला असो, त्या क्षणाला त्याची फिकीर नसेल

तर असंच कोण्या एका बाकावर...कोण्या एका व्यक्तीसाठी...हळुवार फुलणाऱ्या त्या हास्यासाठी….कधीतरी...काही क्षण काढावेत आपल्या BUSY SCHEDULE  मधून...


Tuesday, 21 July 2015

सांग ना ग राणी...

Story of a King when his little Princess gets upset 

सांग  ना राणी काय आणु तुला
बोल की ग काही तोड की अबोला

इत्तुशा नाकावर रागाचा भार
गब्बू गब्बू गाल पण फुगलाय फार
छोट्याशा राणीचा मोठ्ठा राग
रागाचा तिच्या पडला धाक
कशाने पळवून लाऊ मी याला
सांग ना ग राणी तोड की अबोला

उशीर झाला म्हणून रुसलीये परी
उपाशी पोटी मग अबोला धरी
चूक तर बाबानं केलीये खरी
नि उद्या तो लवकर येणारे घरी
मग तर माफ करशील ना बाळा
सांग ना गा राणी तोड की अबोला

Thursday, 16 July 2015

कधी तू.....कधी मी....कधी दोघेही.....

कधी मी रुसणार...

कधी तू हिरमुसणार...

कधी तू नि मी दोघेही.....

मग उगाचच सगळं ताणणार..


कधी मी सांभाळणार...

कधी तू समजून घेणार...

नाहीच घेतला दोघांनी तर सारं विस्कटणार....

मग तू दूर जाणार...

वा मी दुरवणार...

जुळवून नाही घेतला कि दरी उभी राहणार....


मग हवा असेल मी तुला...

हवी असेल तू ही मला...

पण उगाच वाट पाहणार..

मला वाटेल तू माघार ह्यावी..

तुला वाटेल यावेळी मी घेणार नाही....


मग असं होईल,

कि मला खूप वाटतं पण तिलाच गरज नाही...

आणि तू तीळ तीळ तुटत असशील याचा अंदाज मला नाही..


मग तू तिथेच,

मी तिथेच,

पण प्रेम असून नसल्यासारखं...

एकाच घरात परक्या सारखं....

मग वैतागलेला मी...

वैतागलेली तुही...

नि मुक्या भिंतीत, मुका संवाद राही..


कामात माझं मन नाही,

घरात तुझंही लक्ष नाही,

पण माघार दोघंही घेणार नाही..


मग एक दिवशी सकाळी,

तू उशिरा पर्यंत झोपलेली असणार...

बऱ्याच दिवसानंतर मी तुझापास येणार,

झोपेतच तू माझं नाव बरळत असणार...

त्या तापलेल्या अंगानं धडकी मज भरणार..

सगळं काही मग धूसर होवून जाणार..

मिठीत तुला घेऊन मी रडत बसणार.......


खरं सांगतो सखे, प्रेम तेव्हाही असणार...

भांडलो जरी कितीही, जीव तुझासाठीच तुटणार...

बोलेल वेड्यागत कधी, पण तुझ्या अबोल्याने पार वेडावणार...


PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR LOVED ONES...

Saturday, 11 July 2015

Know When to Say GOODBYE

It starts with a sweet ‘Hello!!’, grows with ‘How are you??’, nurtures with ‘How can I make you feel better???’, then gradually you share a bond, before you realise the bond becomes Special n the person becomes Life
Talking together, walking together, laughing together n living together....everything seems to be Perfect... though at times you fight, you again figure out things cause you both care about...

Things change as they are meant to, so as people do though you like or not... once you were their Priority, now they hardly care... once you were all they Wanted, now they hardly do... once it was all Perfect now there is hardly anything...

‘Change is Inevitable’ that’s what they said trying to get over you...or that’s what you said to get over someone, well I won’t say anyone was wrong... we can’t really judge either on the face value... but what’s terrifying is the other one who is left behind... having everything you want and then just nothing to call upon yours, can piss you off....
It’s not very easy to let go, waiting is something you think you can afford... so you hold on to it; you keep stretching it to the best of your capacity; perhaps you sacrifice everything you had, your happiness, your self-respect, your mental peace...you even start losing yourself.

Hopes can keep you alive but false hopes kill you from inside... once they decide to go, they won’t really come back the way they were... though they talk, it will just be for the sake of sympathy... yeah that’s sympathy... the favor they do on you cause they feel pity for you, neither love nor affection...

Is that what you really want to be, an attention seeker??? To be so poor that everyone around you feels bad for you??? And that too for whom...who chose to give up on you... who feel their life is better without you... and for someone like that you made your life miserable... that’s shit...

Life could be much easier if you had guts to let them go, if in return to their ‘Bye’ you could say ‘it was nice to have you in my life but no worries it’s time to say GOODBYE’

People say Byes are never good but they are...cause they save you from living in the hell waiting for someone who is never coming back... believe me, there is really a GOODBYE

Monday, 6 July 2015

WAKE UP FROM YOUR BREAK-UP

The ordinary life all of sudden becomes perfect and sometimes perfect one falls into broken pieces. Then all you can think is ‘Why with Me?’, ‘Don’t I Deserve Happiness?’, ‘Maine Kisika Kya Bighada Tha?’, ‘Aisi Life Se Toh Mar Jana Behtar He!’ and what not.
Well it’s obvious to be upset, coz no one likes failure, but the question is ‘how to get rid of it?’ Though it was precious, though it was all you want, though you think the one was your Soul mate, you need to Wake-Up from Your Break Up.
If it can be fixed with an apology (and again worth to fix-up), definitely give a chance. But don’t make unreasonable compromises or the ones you cannot hold for life time. Just Don’t Loose Yourself To Gain Someone Else.
If it cannot be fixed, don’t keep holding the worthless pieces of that broken relation. Don’t keep yourself hanging on for someone not worth to wait. WAKE-UP.... Don’t weight yourself down; get up from the mess, that pisses you off. There might be many memories of you together, don’t cry over it. Thank them for the good time; forgive for the bad ones’.
Without guilt n regret or the wounds n hurts, now you are FREE TO FLY
The whole world is for you to Roam Around, plenty of things to CHEER UP for.... don’t limit yourself, nor your emotions, let them flow their own way.... Enjoy your life for what you have, Dream for what you want... Welcome Things Coming Your Way, Don’t Let the Past Ruin Their Excitement... GIVE CHANCE to your life to be perfect again, just don’t repeat the mistakes you did in past....
Learn from the Past, Live the Present and Let the Future Decide few things for you..