31st December....

Tonight before u go to bed, make sure
you have a proper closure.

Say sorry if you did something wrong,
Say thanks if someone did something nice.

Speak your heart ❤out,
Let your emotions flow
Its a perfect time to start or let it go...

Tomorrow is gonna be a New beginning
Wish you have your best inning

Have happy ending
and the happiest opening....

IN THE NAME OF FRIENDSHIP

“Sirf Ek Jaam Dosti Ke Naam” is enough to dump you in the mess of addiction, isn’t it?

Cause of such Emotional atyachar or for sake of status or just to prove you are not Fattu, you step to the things you clearly knew to be harmful for your health. First to say it occasionally, then once in a while and eventually being addicted to it, is what many of you have gone through...

“Dosti yaari me chalta he”, “Ye nasha nahi dosti ki kasam he” n what not they say to convince you, but if you get into, you must agree, “Aise dost ho to dushman ki kya jarurat” cause you are Barbaad anyways.

They push you, you get pushed; they pull you, you get pulled; just like a bloody puppet. Nachte raho fir unke isharo pe. “Bhai let’s have party tonight” and you just like dog, doom hilate huye chal diye piche...

I mean how?? Have you lost your mind?? You are pretty aware whatever you all are doing is absolutely wrong, but just don’t want to accept the fact. It will not just kill you but will hurt your whole family, how can you do this to them and that to for whom, your bloody friends who are as good as your enemy...

What about your loved ones’, your parents, well what about you, your health?? One can’t even call you SELFISH cause you don’t even know what is good for you.

Dear guys n girls,

 The path of addiction won’t take you anywhere than a miserable life. Rather than being influenced and choosing wrong way with your so called friends, better you influence them, bring them on track, make them realize what they are choosing is wrong, make them better person cause that’s what a real friend does.

And if they don’t want to get out of that hell, tum apna dabba badal lo, move over them. Aur agar sar par kafan lekar chalneka itna hi shauk he, to join Army, save your nation, your parents n the whole society will be proud of your balidan. Jina he to dang se jiyo yaaro, varna marne ke kai raste he.

रेतीचा मनोरा...

मुलं हौशीनं किनाऱ्यावर रेतीचा मनोरा बांधतात

लाटेनं जो रेतीत मिसळतो,

तेव्हा नव्या उमेदीनं ते पुन्हा कामाला लागतात

लाटेपासून थोडं दूर जाऊन सजवतात

एक, दोन, करता करता पूर्ण नगरी उभारतात

त्या चिमुकल्या साम्राजावर जाम खुश होतात

पण तोवर निघायची वेळ होते

आपलं साम्राज्य मागे टाकून जड पावलाने राजे निघतात

मागे बघत, पाय रेंगाळत, मनाच्या उपरांत निरोप घेतात..

आणि बघता बघता एक मोठी लाट येते.

मागे फक्त अवशेष सोडून जाते...

मित्रांनो, आयुष्यही असंच असतं,

रंगवाल तितकं रंगणारं नि काळाच्या ओघात अवशेष बनून उरणारं...

UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP

Yeah, its kinda trend of today… ‘I love you, but I can’t marry you’ ‘neither can stay away from you so let’s be in RELATIONSHIP till either of us gets married…’

Seriously there exists this type of relationships. I don’t know about rest of world but this fact sucks me. I mean it’s disgusting…dam weird…completely ridiculous…( all this kind of adjectives can be applicable)

Well if you think it’s a one way adjustment; let me tell you it’s not…rather it is a mutual agreement of both to stay in this stupid UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP which will end by their marriage to someone else…  and the divine reason for this is cause they LOVE each other. I don’t know which kind of love is this that makes you fall for a definite time line, a  kind of love that you both nurture to get apart, a kind of love which is mutually meant to end.

My simple question is,

·         If you are gonna marry someone of parents’ choice, then who told you to choose someone for you?   

·         If you know you are gonna b apart, why the hell you want to be TOGETHER?

·         If you are so sure of end, just why do you want to start??

·         If you cannot stay away from each other right now, just howwww you are gonna manage this after a time when the TIME-LINE is over??????

I really want know

·         What do you think about love? Is it a joint venture for you?

·         What do you think of mind? Is it a Re-boot system?

·         What just what you think of life? Is it a walkabout??

Why don’t they understand it’s not just two who are gonna suffer at the end, there will be two more persons they will be disappointing. With their nonsense decision of being in UNCOMMITTED RELATIONSHIP they are putting four lives on stake.

It’s my humble request to each one, not to play with emotions neither of others nor of themselves. It will be over within fraction of seconds but to recover from it, might cost years…

Commitments, Relationships and Love are Divine things, just because of some stupid stories; I can’t see people being afraid of these pious emotions of life.

चालायचंच

कोण आहे हो Perfect  इथे?

प्रत्येकजण चुकतोच की..

मग तासभर तेच चघळण्यापेक्षा

‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

जातो तोल, खुलते पोल..

कोण आहे इथे धुतल्या तांदळाचं,

मग उगाच Gossip करण्यापेक्षा,

‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

जुळतात नाती, तुटतातही..

काचेची भांडी फुटतातही..

मग ते बोचणारे तुकडेच कुठवर वेचणार

‘चालायचंच’ म्हणून द्या सोडून...

काही क्षण...

वाटेत कधी तरी उगीचच थांबा..
बाकड्यावर एखाद्या विश्राम घ्या..
अगदी निवांत फक्त बसून रहा..
थोडावेळ घड्याळ, मोबाईल बाजूला सारा
संथ वाहणाऱ्या वाऱ्यासोबत मनालाही वाहू द्या
अलगद, हळुवार डोळ्यांना मिटून घ्या..
कुणाच्या तरी चेहऱ्याला मनपटलावर येऊ द्या..
त्यांच्या मनसोक्त हास्यात क्षणभर रमून जा....
तुमच्याही नकळत त्याचं प्रतिबिंब तुमच्या ओठांवर असेल,
दिवस कसाही गेला असो, त्या क्षणाला त्याची फिकीर नसेल

तर असंच कोण्या एका बाकावर...कोण्या एका व्यक्तीसाठी...हळुवार फुलणाऱ्या त्या हास्यासाठी….कधीतरी...काही क्षण काढावेत आपल्या BUSY SCHEDULE  मधून...

सांग ना ग राणी...

Story of a King when his little Princess gets upset 

सांग  ना राणी काय आणु तुला

बोल की ग काही तोड की अबोला

इत्तुशा नाकावर रागाचा भार

गब्बू गब्बू गाल पण फुगलाय फार

छोट्याशा राणीचा मोठ्ठा राग

रागाचा तिच्या पडला धाक

कशाने पळवून लाऊ मी याला

सांग ना ग राणी तोड की अबोला

उशीर झाला म्हणून रुसलीये परी

उपाशी पोटी मग अबोला धरी

चूक तर बाबानं केलीये खरी

नि उद्या तो लवकर येणारे घरी

मग तर माफ करशील ना बाळा

सांग ना गा राणी तोड की अबोला

कधी तू.....कधी मी....कधी दोघेही.....

कधी मी रुसणार...

कधी तू हिरमुसणार...

कधी तू नि मी दोघेही.....

मग उगाचच सगळं ताणणार..

कधी मी सांभाळणार...

कधी तू समजून घेणार...

नाहीच घेतला दोघांनी तर सारं विस्कटणार....

मग तू दूर जाणार...

वा मी दुरवणार...

जुळवून नाही घेतला कि दरी उभी राहणार....

मग हवा असेल मी तुला...

हवी असेल तू ही मला...

पण उगाच वाट पाहणार..

मला वाटेल तू माघार ह्यावी..

तुला वाटेल यावेळी मी घेणार नाही....

मग असं होईल,

कि मला खूप वाटतं पण तिलाच गरज नाही...

आणि तू तीळ तीळ तुटत असशील याचा अंदाज मला नाही..

मग तू तिथेच,

मी तिथेच,

पण प्रेम असून नसल्यासारखं...

एकाच घरात परक्या सारखं....

मग वैतागलेला मी...

वैतागलेली तुही...

नि मुक्या भिंतीत, मुका संवाद राही..

कामात माझं मन नाही,

घरात तुझंही लक्ष नाही,

पण माघार दोघंही घेणार नाही..

मग एक दिवशी सकाळी,

तू उशिरा पर्यंत झोपलेली असणार...

बऱ्याच दिवसानंतर मी तुझापास येणार,

झोपेतच तू माझं नाव बरळत असणार...

त्या तापलेल्या अंगानं धडकी मज भरणार..

सगळं काही मग धूसर होवून जाणार..

मिठीत तुला घेऊन मी रडत बसणार.......

खरं सांगतो सखे, प्रेम तेव्हाही असणार...

भांडलो जरी कितीही, जीव तुझासाठीच तुटणार...

बोलेल वेड्यागत कधी, पण तुझ्या अबोल्याने पार वेडावणार...

PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR LOVED ONES...

Know When to Say GOODBYE

It starts with a sweet ‘Hello!!’, grows with ‘How are you??’, nurtures with ‘How can I make you feel better???’, then gradually you share a bond, before you realise the bond becomes Special n the person becomes Life
Talking together, walking together, laughing together n living together....everything seems to be Perfect... though at times you fight, you again figure out things cause you both care about...

Things change as they are meant to, so as people do though you like or not... once you were their Priority, now they hardly care... once you were all they Wanted, now they hardly do... once it was all Perfect now there is hardly anything...

‘Change is Inevitable’ that’s what they said trying to get over you...or that’s what you said to get over someone, well I won’t say anyone was wrong... we can’t really judge either on the face value... but what’s terrifying is the other one who is left behind... having everything you want and then just nothing to call upon yours, can piss you off....
It’s not very easy to let go, waiting is something you think you can afford... so you hold on to it; you keep stretching it to the best of your capacity; perhaps you sacrifice everything you had, your happiness, your self-respect, your mental peace...you even start losing yourself.

Hopes can keep you alive but false hopes kill you from inside... once they decide to go, they won’t really come back the way they were... though they talk, it will just be for the sake of sympathy... yeah that’s sympathy... the favor they do on you cause they feel pity for you, neither love nor affection...

Is that what you really want to be, an attention seeker??? To be so poor that everyone around you feels bad for you??? And that too for whom...who chose to give up on you... who feel their life is better without you... and for someone like that you made your life miserable... that’s shit...

Life could be much easier if you had guts to let them go, if in return to their ‘Bye’ you could say ‘it was nice to have you in my life but no worries it’s time to say GOODBYE’

People say Byes are never good but they are...cause they save you from living in the hell waiting for someone who is never coming back... believe me, there is really a GOODBYE

WAKE UP FROM YOUR BREAK-UP

The ordinary life all of sudden becomes perfect and sometimes perfect one falls into broken pieces. Then all you can think is ‘Why with Me?’, ‘Don’t I Deserve Happiness?’, ‘Maine Kisika Kya Bighada Tha?’, ‘Aisi Life Se Toh Mar Jana Behtar He!’ and what not.
Well it’s obvious to be upset, coz no one likes failure, but the question is ‘how to get rid of it?’ Though it was precious, though it was all you want, though you think the one was your Soul mate, you need to Wake-Up from Your Break Up.
If it can be fixed with an apology (and again worth to fix-up), definitely give a chance. But don’t make unreasonable compromises or the ones you cannot hold for life time. Just Don’t Loose Yourself To Gain Someone Else.
If it cannot be fixed, don’t keep holding the worthless pieces of that broken relation. Don’t keep yourself hanging on for someone not worth to wait. WAKE-UP.... Don’t weight yourself down; get up from the mess, that pisses you off. There might be many memories of you together, don’t cry over it. Thank them for the good time; forgive for the bad ones’.
Without guilt n regret or the wounds n hurts, now you are FREE TO FLY
The whole world is for you to Roam Around, plenty of things to CHEER UP for.... don’t limit yourself, nor your emotions, let them flow their own way.... Enjoy your life for what you have, Dream for what you want... Welcome Things Coming Your Way, Don’t Let the Past Ruin Their Excitement... GIVE CHANCE to your life to be perfect again, just don’t repeat the mistakes you did in past....
Learn from the Past, Live the Present and Let the Future Decide few things for you..

How to Deal with your Partner's Depression

Depression is a phase where one lacks his or her self esteem. When one is depressed, he/she is not disappointed with anyone else but themselves, that gradually builds to the state where they are trapped in their own thoughts that make them believe ‘bad luck is all their destiny is...’

This depression does not just kill their personality but acts as a slow poison to kill them too. It leaves its effect all around the person, right from their health to mental stability, which eventually becomes matter of worrying for their dear ones.

Most of the times the person tries to distance him/herself from others because of the belief ‘bad luck is all their destiny is...’  When they try to distance you, if you get apart, they won’t ever get out of the mess of depression and it is when as partner your role comes in.

You need to ensure few simple things

1. Don’t let them skip meals: empty stomach builds circle of negativity, if you can join their dinner table, it will be much better

2. Take silent walk after dinner: words can’t cure things as effectively as your mere presence can do. While walking take their hand in yours, when you have eye contact smile at them. Don’t stretch the situation, behave normally.

3. Discuss the day: before bed, you must have some sort of communication, ‘how was the day’ can be good start for it. If there was something wrong pretend it to be fine, as if nothing like a great loss. Share some romantic moments to cheer them up.

4. Start a day with their smile: insist them to be there when you wake up. Tell them their smile is your lucky charm, and you love to start your day with their smiley face. It will in terms make their day.

5. Make break-fast together: if possible cook together, feed them with your hands, ask them to feed you. Start day with sweet moments.

6. Give 'Good-bye hug': before any of you leave home, give them hug n a soft kiss, wish a good-day, don’t forget to say you will miss them.

7. 'Miss you' messages: if calls can disturb them, send them messages like ’miss you’, ‘love you’. If she has made Tiffin for you, take efforts to call n appreciate it. If you have cooked for him, call to ask if he liked it.

8. Take surprise holiday: to change the mood, holiday is the best option ever. Spend the whole day just two of you. Have long drive, go for movie, share ice-cream and fight like kids for it. Propose them in public, the same way you saw in the movie, take dinner of their choice.

9. Go for shopping: shopping has been proved to release stress, go for it once in awhile, insist to take your favourite colour, give them compliments on the dress they try.

10. Watch their favourite show: to take a break after stressful day, the idiot box can relax you. Watching their favourite show can make them happy. You can play their favourite song, can enjoying dancing on it.

Well, to do all these things don’t wait for your partner to go in depression, practicing these things in routine will act like ‘precaution is better than cure’  

Life is Awesome

Life is always Cool if you Don’t Boil it on the Steam of Worry.

Life is Exciting if you Don’t Mess it by Expecting.

Life is Awesome if you know to Keep Some Away.

Life is Fabulous if you be Fearless.

Life is Perfect if Protect Differences.

Life is Marvelous, if Sweet things are Magnified.

Life is All About for Whom to Fall & How not to.

How to build a long lasting Relationship?

                When we say relationship, it is not just between couples but between any two persons sharing a bond, may it be love, may it be friendship, may be family relation or may professional one.

Now why we need to have a long lasting relation?

                Cause life is long, not lasting forever but still pretty long...

Since we are born we share a bond with our mom, then dad, then siblings and family, gradually the relationship circle grows up to neighbourhood, schooling, clubbing, work place to society....

Not with everyone we meet, we share a bond...we do feel like being friends or being attached to few of them, that means they are special to you

So 1. Treat them a way they feel SPECIAL

From crowd of hundreds, you liked them only that means they are different from rest of the mob

So 2. RESPECT n APPRECIATE their differences.

When you chose them for you, you chose them the way they are, you liked them, you loved them for the same way they are

So 3. DON’T try to MODIFY their personality, let them the way they want to be.

Now when they are with you, make them feel they are not alone, they have someone, they can talk with, when they feel low or when they are at high; someone to care, to share and to dare with

So 4. Have SWEET REMINDERS of your presence.

If they mean something to you, let them know

So 5. PLEASE them with your actions.

If you didn’t like something, say upfront; don’t hurt with your actions or silence

So 6. CLARIFY things before you mess the relation.

When you are together, don’t talk about the rest of world, talk about your world; share laugh, share love

So 7. SPEND some QUALITY TIME together

Many times relations break not because of any of two, but because of the rumours from someone else. Know whom to trust on, don’t let anyone break your bond, you care about.

So the last one DON’T KEEP SPACE for third person to ruin your happiness n your relation

I really appreciate you read this till the end, that says you truly care for your relationship,

So here is a treat for you, the short cut for long lasting relationship

                TREAT THEM THE WAY YOU WILL LIKE TO BE TREATED...

NO MATTER WHAT...

After all it doesn’t matter, Why..How..When..Where...for What..for Whom, you live, coz you just have to..

Once you thought, the person was everything that meant to you...you thought you can never live further if they leave you...you probably have dreamt several times, How would it be if they were not there, in your life.. besides you.. for you forever....

And then, The Master proves you wrong.....the One, you thought your life is, is not even a part of it...so you keep your eyes closed as if everything is gone, you have just nothing to hold on...

You start believing that Life is miserable as Hell....No Hopes..No Ray...No Will..No Way...

But when you Dare to open your eyes...What you see, will amaze you; Life will not be Bad at all,  in fact it will be pretty Liveable...all your concepts will change, so as your priorities will do....

This is How It Works...No Matter What...Life Goes on...

HE keeps proving you Wrong...

When you feel, you are the strongest..HE breaks you

When you feel at all your low..HE awakes you

All HE wants you to do is to Move on..to live on..you just keep dreaming on...No Matter What

When in a dark room, a Shadow Ghost scares the hell out of you, scientifically it is the Reflection drawn by Little Light...that actually can be your Ray of Hope...so all you need to do is Change your Perception towards life...just Never Give Up...No Matter What...

DRESS FOR SUCCESS

Sounds little funny, right?? But is actually true... There is a dress for success... let’s say a Uniform of Successful People. When we call it "UNIFORM", it’s not just about an Attire but the Attitude, the Discipline, the Policy of operation and much more

If we split the word         UNIFORM           UNI+FORM         UNIQUE FORMAT

Now things appear pretty clear, It is the Unique Format of Appearance universally adopted by the Successful People

Now the question lies, What is Success??

A Wise person gave a short, simple n perfect definition, “SUCCESS is when your SIGNATURE changes to AUTOGRAPH..” isn’t it??

So now our Goal is clear ‘To be the one whom people will approach for an Autograph; i.e. to be a LEADER or an IDOL .‘

Getting back to the point of a Dress for Success, let’s start with bottom

Find a SHOE that works for you- Noone else is walking in your shoe, so look for what works for you. People might judge you for your choice but these same people will say you made a wise move after you prove.

Wear the TROUSERS of your size- Your trousers=your expectations. Your capabilities here for instance will be your waist size. If your TROUSERS are of wrong size, will it stay in put?? No, right?

So carry the expectations equals to your capabilities, else you will end up with frustration, keep track on your capabilities then improve it, now your expectation n performance will go hand in hand. 

Buckle the right BELT- that means your expectations should be precised to your goal so as to keep you always on the desired track.

Choose a SHIRT suiting on your TROUSERS- Act suitably to pursue what you expected initially.

TIE your Responsibilities- Don’t blame anyone else for your failure, take the responsibility of your action and it’s reactions, identify what went wrong and rectify it.

Your COAT is your Code-   Your attitude dictates what type of person you are, it is very important to know what you stand for.

Don't miss the WATCH- Keep your eye on time, don’t be late else you will miss the opportunities.

Don’t hide your FACE behind make up- Don’t cover your identity with false masks, be honest, be faithful, be the one you actually are...

This all is enough to be successful...definitely not very easy, it will never be....but as they say, “Don’t wait for things to be Easy..better you be Tough...”